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#026: How To End Relationship Self-Sabotage

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I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist based in Miami, a relationship podcast host, and an educator. I help couples transform their patterns of communication and heal after infidelity. 


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Has your partner told you countless times that you are making a big deal out of nothing? Or maybe you hold grudges for way too long. If either situation sounds familiar to you, then you might be guilty of relationship self-sabotage.

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Check out this episode’s highlights:
  • My co-host Alina and I discuss common relationship self-sabotage scenarios that appear in relationships.
  • We also share the possible reasons for your self-sabotaging behavior which might have led to your last breakup.
  • And more importantly, we tell you what you can do differently in your next relationship.
  • And as a BONUS, we are giving a FREE Guide to help you identify self-sabotaging behavior and tools you can use for a healthy future relationship.
  • Tune in to become more mindful about your behavior, to gain control and to have better relationships in the future.



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I'm Idit Sharoni, your podcast host.

I'm an expert on relationships and infidelity recovery. I'm a licensed marriage & family therapist, a podcast host, and the founder of Relationship Experts  - a Couples Therapy & Coaching private practice.

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