Want FREE Relationship Advice, Tips, and tools? Listen To Our Podcast!

Listen to our Podcast: Relationships Uncomplicated!

Join Us on the Relationships Uncomplicated Podcast for Expert Insights and Honest Conversations about Relationships.

#015: Why We Ignore Relationship Red Flags?

Idit Sharoni

posted by:


why do you have to be so defensive?


how to get an expert to help your relationship


how to express remorse after infidelity
Now Trending




I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist based in Miami, a relationship podcast host, and an educator. I help couples transform their patterns of communication and heal after infidelity. 


affair Recovery

learn more

I'm Idit Sharoni

The program

Our highly effective coaching program for couples in the aftermath of infidelity looking to heal and regain trust.

Have you recently asked yourself, “How did my relationship get to this point?” Is the relationship you are in not the one you signed up for? If so, you were probably ignoring some relationship red flags.

Once the butterflies have subsided, and the relationship turns out to be not what you expected, you might ask yourself “How did we get here?” It feels like you are dating someone else. How did you not notice this? Well, the answer lies in how we all have a tendency to ignore relationship red flags sometimes. As an FYI, relationship red flags are warning signs of danger or a problem in the connection or the person you’re with.

So, how do you pick up on these red flags? Believe it or not, all you need is human nature to detect relationship red flags not much more. Chances are you saw all the warning signs but you chose to ignore them, intentionally. This is normal and it makes perfect sense, so no need to beat yourself up. But let’s see what you can still learn.

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated we discuss the top 5 reasons why you might have ignored these warning signs. And we also talk about 3 great ways to detect these red flags. Finally, we tell you how to handle the signs and take care of them before it’s too late.

My co-host Alina was kind enough to provide you with an amazing tool to help you navigate all this. It is a Free Quiz to find out if you are ignoring red flags in your relationship.

Links mentioned in this episode:

QUIZ: Am I Seeing The Red Flags In My Relationship?

Episode 14:IS IT Time For Couples Counseling?


The Relationships Uncomplicated Podcast by Idit Sharoni

I'm Idit Sharoni, your podcast host.

I'm an expert on relationships and infidelity recovery. I'm a licensed marriage & family therapist, a podcast host, and the founder of Relationship Experts  - a Couples Therapy & Coaching private practice.

Thanks for reading!

I hope you enjoyed the post!

The Secret to Healing After Infidelity




We can help you save your relationship after infidelity!
Sign up to get immediate access to our masterclass.

Infidelity Recovery

you'll know what you're doing that's getting you stuck in conflict avoidance.

you'll get actionable suggestions to change that pattern and reconnect.

you will be able to start healing from infidelity!

Feel like you've been disconnected from your partner? Have you been avoiding confrontation to keep the peace? This free quiz will help you detect whether you've been engaged in relational conflict avoidance and what you can do instead to start healing from infidelity.

Do you engage in conflict Avoidance?

- Ruth & Rob

"Thank you! Your quiz and the results helped us realize why we were so disconnected and what to do about it."

Relational conflict avoidance


free quiz