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Marriage Counseling: How Tools and Assessments in Marriage Counseling Can Strengthen Your Relationship

Idit Sharoni

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I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist based in Miami, a relationship podcast host, and an educator. I help couples transform their patterns of communication and heal after infidelity. 

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Do you long for more camaraderie, closeness, conflict resolution, and trust? Everyone wants a nurturing, healthy, satisfying relationship. Yet, the road to that kind of connection is not always clear. Professional help is a valuable option for enhancing mutual support and understanding.

After years of offering marriage counseling in Miami, FL, we know that the help of a relationship expert can foster goodwill and reconnection in a struggling or stale marriage. How? An experienced counselor offers two vital things to help you and your partner feel safe, heard, and confident moving forward:

  • Proven relationship-building tools
  • Accurate assessment of your connection and communication

Image of a young couple sitting on a couch in marriage counseling speaking to a therapist. With the right tools and assessments from a skilled marriage counselor in Miami, FL you and your partner can work on improving communication and intimacy.

 

Why Are Relationship Tools And Assessments Important in Marriage Counseling?

The tools and evaluations used in marriage counseling are critical. They help shift unhelpful or unhealthy interactions between you and your partner. You may be too close or immersed in the dynamics of your relationship to see or understand them well.  A counselor’s goal is to observe and offer a fair and organized take on your communication and assumptions about each other. You and your partner receive a comprehensive education about yourselves and your relationship.  With new strategies to explore and address your relationship, you gain new avenues for connection.

Whether you seek out a marriage counselor in Miami, FL, or through an online forum, the counselor’s aim is the same. To use tools and assessments for lasting change in your marriage.  Offerings at our Florida-based practice, it is no different. Our favorite marriage counseling tools at Relationship Experts? The cache of well-respected, thoroughly researched, science-based tools provided by The Gottman Institute.

Gottman Method Tools and Assessments in Marriage Counseling

The Gottman Method, instituted by Drs. John and Julie Gottman is a highly effective approach to couples therapy. More than forty years of research, and a wealth of clinical work with couples, support their work. Their method leans on the significance of establishing a solid relationship foundation. Trust and commitment are the cornerstones. Key tools and evaluations promote solidly building that foundation.

We also choose the Gottman method as a team, because it equips you and your partner with specific exercises to face and fix important relationship issues during our counseling sessions. This eases tension and emotional distress after sessions. Helping you feel more cooperative and productive between visits.

The Gottman Method provides a range of really beneficial practical tools. For example, exercises like “Love Maps,” encourage you and your spouse to deepen your understanding of each other’s inner world. Additionally, the “Four Horsemen,” intervention helps address communication patterns that undermine closeness and trust.

Now, what about marriage counseling success? How will you know if these tools are working? What can you look to to determine if your marriage is actually getting stronger?

A Key Assessment In The Gottman Method: The Gottman Checkup.

Clarity and perspective ensure good relationship decisions. To map out the most rewarding and productive way forward, we find the Gottman Checkup assessment helpful. It offers a deep examination of your relationship strengths and weaknesses. 

This process does not point fingers or make assumptions. It is simply a fresh take on your marriage. It prompts new ideas, new directions, and updated aims for mutual healing and happiness. After responding to assessment questions, you get clear, personalized feedback about your union.

At Relationship Experts, we do our best to show you where you are. As well as how you are progressing and what needs tweaking. We have little trouble calculating the time needed to achieve your relationship goals. Why? Because we have a solid path of guidance and gauging your progress helped by clear assessment from the start.

Image of a couple holding hands and walking on rocks on the beach. Reconnect with your partner in effective ways with the help of marriage counseling in Miami, FL.

Applying Tools & Assessments in Marriage Counseling Sessions

Our training in the Gottman Method allows us to tailor therapy sessions to you. For instance, during counseling, your therapist might lead you through the “Love Map” exercise. The goal? To boost closeness with open-ended questions about your dreams and everyday experiences.

Your counselor might also use the Gottman Checkup results to pinpoint areas to improve communication. Is the way you conflict an issue? Then your counselor might guide you toward the “Gentle Start-Up” technique. This helps you learn to discuss tough topics compassionately, reducing defensiveness or disrespect.

These tools and assessments support awareness and reactivate earnest participation in your relationship. As you acknowledge your motivations and reactions, you’ll feel more empowered to make the necessary changes. 

Why Applying Tools & Assessments Are An Advantage In Marriage Counseling

The structured approach of the Gottman Method yields a host of benefits. With better communication, renewed intimacy, and more trust, you’ll be prepared for future struggles. You’ll have what you need to prevent minor problems from escalating into major rifts.

Furthermore, insights from the Gottman Checkup can empower you. The data from your assessments allows you and your partner to:

  • build on your strengths
  • address areas needing improvement
  • develop deeper understanding and connection.

This approach is balanced and supportive. It cultivates unity and comprehension. Thus, leading to the resilient relationship you’ve wanted all along.

Seeking professional guidance is a transformative step for your bond and your well-being. A marriage counselor in Miami, FL can help you repair your relationship, tackle tough issues, and develop the partnership you need.  

Image of man holding hands of a woman sitting on couch indoors. Strengthen the bond you and your partner have in your relationship with the support of marriage counseling in Miami, FL.

Ready to Strengthen Your Relationship With Marriage Counseling in Miami, Florida?

Make measurable changes in your relationship with marriage counseling in Miami, FL, or elsewhere in the state. Our skilled, caring marriage counselors at Relationship Experts will offer you and your partner thoughtful guidance when you’re ready to strengthen your relationship. Just a few steps will start your progress:

  1. Schedule a complimentary consultation to determine whether marriage counseling is appropriate
  2. Converse confidentially with a marriage counselor for an initial 90-minute session
  3. Lay the foundation for new insights and deeper connections today!

Other Services Provided By Relationship Experts

Our staff of counselors at Relationship Experts offers key services to promote closeness and deeper relationships. Beyond in-office therapy, our practice provides online therapy worldwide. These offerings include Infidelity Recovery, Couples Therapy and Marriage Counseling, Affair Counseling, and Communication Therapy. Please check our blog for more worthwhile information!

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Image of a smiling couple sitting at a table looking at papers. With the help of marriage counseling in Miami, FL you and your partner can work on strengthening your relationship.

I'm Idit Sharoni, your podcast host.

I'm an expert on relationships and infidelity recovery. I'm a licensed marriage & family therapist, a podcast host, and the founder of Relationship Experts  - a Couples Therapy & Coaching private practice.

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